Sub wasn’t really a sub

A “sub” responded to my DM that I was in his area. He immediately asked me what I looked like and my body type. I told him I ask the questions and what does he look like (not that it matters). He deleted the chat. That’s not a true sub. I get everyone wants to be physically invested in their domme/sub but a true sub would have answered the question, no problems and then apologized/waited/begged for my response.