Sp robotic affirmations

Hi guys, I’m having trouble manifesting my sp it’s been a year I’ve had movement there’s no bad circumstances I think I’m just overthinking it at this point but I’m wondering if repeating “X and I are back together” robotically would work? I always affirmed for him thinking about me, loving me etc but that’s not actually what I want I want us BACK TOGETHER and he’s been my bf before so I’m just wondering if that’s a good way to go about it or if anyone else has an affirmation that puts them in the state? I also would love some advice on how to focus on myself again I feel like going down the rabbit hole of manifesting an sp has been making me feel like my energy has to be on him all the time or it won’t work but I feel like I’m chasing and I hate being in that relationship dynamic lol Any help would be great!