Sincere question to Shia

Salam

I have a sincere question specifically to those Shia who curse or talk negatively about The prophet SAW wife. Its a hypothetical question but please try and answer honestly.

If you had all the knowledge you had today of all the alleged bad actions of Aisha RA and you were alive during the lifetime of the prophet would you then dare say the disrespectful things you about her to his face ?

As a muslim man i know how protective we are of our women and whenever i see or hear certain Shia say the things they say about her such as her being a kafir, being in hellfire, committing adultery and so on i just cant help but wonder if those same people would have kept the same energy in front of the prophet.

I know very well that not all shia say or believe these things but my question is specifically to those who do.