I don’t think my parents care about me…

In 2024, many things happened. My friend took his life, my boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up, he then leaked videos of us in bed (he filmed without my knowledge), got a stalker, I have no friends. I was bullied in 10 grade, when the Videos got leaked, and I’m getting bullied in my new school. I have an ed, regular panic-attacks and my parents show no support. I told them back in February 2024 that my friend had killed himself, as well as the videos getting leaked, and they never brought it up again. Never a “how are you”, nothing. All I do is lay in bed, and instead of wondering why, they just call me lazy and yell at me. Maybe 3 months ago my dad sat me down to talk cause I had been mad for some days, I told him I was done waiting for them so care. He told me it would be better, but he didn’t know what so say, so he said we would finish the talk some other time, we didn’t. When I brought this up my mom yelled at me and told me I have to talk to them myself. Today, after a fight with my mom, she said I myself have to set a date and time for talking to both of them. They’ve told me they don’t know how to help, I explained that anything is better than not saying anything, still nothing. I just don’t understand why I always have to initiate, when they know I’m hurting. I’m 17F by the way, my parents are late 40s.