i trusted someone way too much and now i feel stupid

not really looking for advice. i just need to get this out because it’s been sitting heavy on me.

i was in a relationship that, looking back, was mostly me trying to hold it together. she used to be so warm and into us, and then out of nowhere it turned cold. she started needing “space,” going out more, staying up late and barely texting back.

i kept convincing myself i was just being insecure. i’ve had my own trust issues in the past and didn’t want to bring that into something new. but this time it wasn’t just me overthinking, it was different.

i didn’t want to go digging through her stuff or accuse her without anything solid, but i ended up finding a way to quietly figure things out for myself. it wasn’t some big dramatic moment. it was just... confirmation. enough to stop lying to myself.

i haven’t confronted her yet. i don’t even know if i want to. i think i’m just done.

i feel like a fool for trusting so blindly. but weirdly, i also feel calm. i know now. no more guessing.

just needed to say it somewhere. thanks if you read this.