After a very long, very hard battle with cancer, my dad passed away. I was his primary caregiver for 7 months when I moved in with him and fought with him. 

I watched him take his last breath last week and waited 10 days to see him again at his funeral. It’s been a long and difficult process. However I have been very grateful how well I am handling my process. 

Seeing him again at the funeral after 10 days was harder than watching him die. 

When I walked away before they closed the casket, I took in seeing him for the last time and knew I would be walking away with the last image I’ll ever have of him. I was at peace with what my experience was. 

However, I open my Facebook yesterday and saw my sister posted photos of our dad dead in his casket in a public post. Now my image of my dad is this photo and it hurts. I didn’t expect to see him. I didn’t want to see him dead again. Only one person has brought it up to me so far and said she wasn’t expecting it and it caused her to cry in pain. 

I decided that I needed to be honest with my sister and sent her this text. Am I overreacting? 

I just feel this was inappropriate and disrespectful to my dad and all his other family members and friends who may have been grieving differently and processing the loss in their own way. 

I also saw that she shared my dad’s livestream services from his funeral public on Facebook when the link was supposed to be shared privately to only friends and family. Now I feel like mentioning something about that to her but not sure how to bring it up after I sent something already to her….i just feel like some etiquette is a given that things were meant to be private.

AIO? Had my dad’s funeral on Sat. My sister shared a picture our deceased dad publicly on Facebook.