AIO - Gf chose to party instead of looking after me when I had been sick

On a recent trip to Ibiza, we had been partying pretty hard for 3-4 day, cut to 4am and I’m feeling tired/ unwell. Lots of consumption, so I said goodnight to my friends and gf who were continuing to party (we were listing to music in a hotel room) since it was the last night.

I went to sleep in our hotel room and after maybe 45-60m I woke up and was sick, I tried to call my gf but it went to VM due to do not disturb. I asked the others could they let her know, they all came to check on me.

I asked my gf would she stay with me since I wasn’t feeling great, and her response to me was no, she was going to carry on with her night, that was taking drugs and drinking in the other hotel room at circa 5am rather than stay with me. She asked why was I trying to cause her issues?

I found this upsetting as I would not do this to her, if she asked me to stay with her when she was ill I would do. To this day she says she doesn’t agree with me, says I’m trying to keep her on a leash and I just didn’t like it that she was partying.

I have since brought this up and she just calls me pathetic because I find this upsetting and tells me she doesn’t agree with / can’t see my POV. Tells me we’ll have to disagree on this. Her frame of reference being that she says she wouldn’t be bothered if I did it. But to me that’s not the point, I asked her to stick with me, since we’re meant to be a unit, and she just flat out said no because she would prefer to carry on.

To me this doesn’t feel morally right. I wouldn’t ever leave her if she asked me to stay. I just wanted some support after being sick, in case I was again.

AIO?