Why can I not find words for attraction to specific personalities?

First question: Why is there no question flair? Actual question: I'm alterous, I'm only attracted to a personality at first(specificly a feminine personality, but that is not included in the definition of alterous), then I might feel a romantic attraction(I think, still figuring that out), but I have no sexual attraction, no attraction to a persons body at all. I needed to specify that I am attracted to a feminine personality, so I tried to find a lable for attraction to a specific personality(feminine, or masculine, or androgynous) but found nothing, all I found were words like(example is fem) venusic, gynosexual, and some others all of which were words for attraction to a feminine aesthetic or feminine body, which is not accurate in my case. Did I just not look in the right places and miss a fitting word, or is there just not words for that yet.