My husband and his family are being rude and insensitive towards me I need help.

I’m a 23 year old female. I have 2 kids. And an immigrant.(it’s important for the story)

Recently I’ve been feeling lonely and scared With all this immigration stuff going around Specially because I feel like everything and everyone is against me

My father in law has made comments about how he’s a proud trump supporter and immigration jokes. (His mom voted for Kamala ) But during games she makes jokes about my accent.( which I don’t have one) I’ve been in the united states since I was 4. And no one has said anything about my accent. Ive even asked people and they don’t think I have an accent at all.

I have 3 brothers in laws. 2 of them are dating Mexican girls only difference is that they have papers. And I guess that makes us different

It’s gotten to the point that my youngest brother in law is so comfortable making jokes about how he’s going to call ice on me and every time we see a cop he says "watch out they will get you right now" He’s had to have learned the form somewhere even though my husband says Says his parents aren’t racist Specially cause he has a black cousin and a black grandpa

My other brother in law is a bit better. but his wife isn’t that nice she’s half Mexican half white she’s also a trump supporter but she only voted for him because my father in law voted for him she seeks his attention. Even though her mom is an immigrant her self (she’s a us citizen now) so she also feels comfortable laughing about the jokes and keeps reminding me that my father in law voted for him.

My husband is on their side he also laughs about every joke they make and I do ask him why and he says they don’t mean it.

And that I need to stop focusing on the negative stuff. when they have done a lot for me. Even though they only do things because we are together. He says he supports me and he’s ready to move to Mexico if I get deported but when I tell him about all the stuff his family says he takes their side.

I don’t know what to do I have no family here. I only have them.I have no help I can’t work because i don’t have papers. I don’t know what to do. im on the verge of just giving up.