AITA for sending the OnlyFans video of my boyfriend with Bonnie Blue to his parents and grandparents after I found out he was part of her “Schoolies week” rampage?

I (19F) recently found out that my boyfriend (20M) participated in a gangbang with the currently viral OnlyFans creator, “Bonnie Blue,” during Schoolies week last year. I didn’t know about this until recently, when the video of it got leaked on Twitter and a friend showed me because surprise—my boyfriend was very visibly and enthusiastically involved, no mask or anything.

To be clear, this happened while we were together. He claimed he was “just going with the boys” for a chill trip, I mean it was schoolies, couldn’t be that bad…. (Or so I thought) and of course he lied about where he stayed and who he was with. I confronted him and he tried to downplay it like it “wasn’t a big deal,” said it “was before Bonnie blew up,” and that it was “just one night of fun.” No remorse, no apology, nothing.

I was furious, humiliated, and disgusted, I felt like a complete failure and like all the time we had together was blown on some “gangbang specialist”. So, I did what some might call unhinged….

I downloaded the video off a Twitter downloader and sent it to his parents and grandparents emails, with the caption:

“This is what your boy was up to during schoolies week”

Once his parents and grandparents saw the video, all hell broke loose, he got into a screaming match with his grandmother and his mum called him a “sick twat” on speakerphone. I relished the moment. He told me that I ruined his life but guess what? He deserves it. So, AITA?