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28 [M4F] #Online #US Masculine Sub Looking For Gentle Domme In "Vanilla" Romantic Female-led Long Term Relationship

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Hi I'm new here! I am 28 and I live in the Eastern US. I am interested in this type of relationship because of the amount of trust and open communication it allows between partners, both which are extremely important qualities to me.

About Me

I am 5'10" white, medium build with dark brown hair and a masculine appearance. I do not have any tattoos or piercings and probably do not plan on getting any soon (not against those though). I describe my self as introverted, sensitive, caring, romantic, passionate, open-minded, curious, playful, motivated and creative

In my free time I currently enjoy PC gaming, cats, cooking, going to the gym, and learning new things 😊. I have some other hobbies that I pick up sometimes like photography, and there's also many things I would love to try with a partner like dancing. Currently I have my MS in Engineering and I WFH as a software engineer so I can both provide for you and be an available house-maid to serve you have throughout the day. I am often indecisive so it would work best if you eventually become the main decision maker in the relationship! If you aren't local to me (which you probably won't be) I am open to starting out long distance, but also I am open to relocating for you (as long as you are in the US) once we get to know each other well enough! Once again, open communication is VERY important to me so we know what works for us and what doesn't.

To be completely honest, I am very inexperienced to this area, but would love someone who is willing to guide and care for me throughout our journey together. I am willing to but in the time and effort to learn on my own and don't expect you to solely teach me everything though!

Also I am not listing any kinks because in my opinion the emotional experience/desires for both people is far more important and that differs for most people! What I am personally looking for in terms of feeling is complete vulnerability and being under absolute control. I will make sure you know that you are in charge no matter what! I also enjoy worship and following orders and making sure I can please you in exactly the way you want me to. If you really want to know my kinks though, I can answer privately! I also will say that know I have some limits but of course that would be discussed before anything happens. I would say I have preferences, but also I open-minded in trying most reasonable things as long as it makes you happy.

About You

I am looking for someone that hopefully shares some of my interests (not 100% necessary!), but more importantly has the following traits I listed below.

- Between the ages of 24-33

- Willing to try new things

- Has Professional Career/Education Goals

- Responsible and Able to act Independently

- Comfortable with communicating on ANY topic

- Able to be trusted to keep our secret 🀐

- Confident and knows what you want

- Able to joke around, but also able to be serious as needed! (no dry texting PLEASE)

- No Kids (I am not entirely opposed to them in the future though)

What I want

My ideal relationship would be leading an outwardly unassuming and normal romantic relationship while still maintaining this type of power dynamic (sexual and non-sexual) while at home. I am looking for a Female-led nurturing relationship with a domme that I can always support and trust in any situation. Someone that I can not only devote my life to but also build a strong emotional and physical connection with.

Also here are some additional traits I value in a relationship (also the first letter of each of these values might spell something out about me 😊)

- Intimacy

- Mutual Respect

- Affection

- Vulnerability

- Intention

- Reliability

- Growth

- Investment

- Nurturing

THANKS FOR READING LOL

Posted Jun 13, 2025, 4:07 AM UTC Β· locked

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