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T_isamistake

cis man talking to trans woman

Advice

(sorry mods I'm posting from my main account now, attempted to post this previously from a throwaway)

so I've been talking to this girl for about a month and a half after we matched on hinge and imo it's been going quite well, been on 1 date and have spoken about 2 more soon and I do really like her.

just wanted to see if there's any advice for how I should proceed. before we started speaking I would've called myself a hetero man, now I realise I'm probably moreso a feminine-attracted bisexual (but i might still count as hetero because I do fully respect her gender identity and much prefer just calling her a woman rather than a trans woman) but basically I don't know a whole lot about the struggles and issues of this community because it's never been a part of my life until now.

thanks people

Posted Jun 14, 2025, 8:49 PM UTC

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