Should I give my bf one final chance to show up for our relationship?

Advice Needed

I, [28F] have been dating my bf [30M] for 5 years. We've always had the same goals to achieve in life and same interests. and worked towards goals so I thought.. When we first started dating I was the bread winner, had my own house, cars, everything. I didn't mind being the bread winner. So I paid all major expenses. With agreement he help give the house a face lift since he is handy. Last year I came to him that money was tight and I needed him to help. He contributed and said we'd talk regularly and openly to stay on top of things. Every couple months, I would try to sit down and talk to him why he hasn't been able to contribute. We'll it's been turned on me that I should be reminding him. Couple months ago same thing but this time I brought up separation that it was my final straw. Now, we are in the same boat, but this time I told him to move out for real. He struggled with this for a week or so to come to terms, doing everything to stay together, but now understands and giving me space. He gave a day he will move out. Now that a move out date is set in motion, my mind is going in different directions. I loved our life and our little family of us and our dogs. Honestly our dogs are seemingly upset not seeing him. They are our kids since human ones are not in the plan. I've looked into options to cushion us financially to take that stress away.
Besides this we don't fight, want the same things in life, love our fur family, he treats me right in all the right ways, supports decisions, etc. So if I can give us have more financial freedom and take our only stressor away::
Would you stay one final time with payment agreements from him or cut this off now while it's in motion?

Posted Jun 14, 2025, 8:50 PM UTC

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