Wife Didn't Visit Me In the Hospital

So I have been married for three years. It has had its share of ups and downs. We have a one year old and my wife is a SAHM. Recently I have been asking her when does she plan on going back to work (During pre marital counseling I brought up and we agreed that I prefer for my wife to work after our child turns one) and she has gotten very defensive at me asking and for us to come up with a plan on her applying for jobs. Her parents have already agreed to watch our son for free as they live 30 minutes away. Well this along with me being very honest with my wife about her not supporting me as a spouse should and asking her to please help our more with cleaning of the house as I have a very stressful job and I do all the cooking and bath time and story time with our son. Well she got very upset and said told me I'm a drill sergeant, that I'm controlling, and that I'm mean. I have never cheated or emotionally or verbally abused my wife. My wife left and went to her parents house and told me that she will be loved and appreciated over there. Her uncle's and some family members came to town and her family is having a bbq at their place. Well fast forward to last night I start having chest pains and an irregular heartbeat so I call text my wife that I'm heading to the ER. Once I get the to the ER I'm diagnosed with a irregular heartbeat and the hospital along with myself calls my wife and she doesn't answer the calls. Well the next morning she texts me and asks me if I went to the ER. I'm still in the hospital and should be discharged from the hospital today but never has she called or asked what hospital I am at. I have had friends and their wife's show up to visit me and encourage me. This has made me realize that I'm not important to her at all and has let me know that I can't trust her. I'm leaning on my relationship with God and asking him to keep my heart soften but I'm strongly leaning towards filing for divorce next week. Right now I'm hurting because I don't even know what to do or say.