Me and my ex split. I'm doing rebounds...

It's been a week since me and my ex split. He is yelling at me more often and playing mind games again. I have to get outta here ASAP.

I was meant to be living with my sister and her bf, but they're going through issues. I have no friends and don't get along/speak to the rest of my family.

I was on a date last night from Tinder, and I stayed at his and was intimate. Ik the risk of this but if there r any red flags, ik to leave. This is just a casual/fun rebound. I need to be safe around people again, and I need to hold my mind to this.

Now, the issue is, ofc, staying in a shelter. I probably will have time be back at a certain time. I have to let them know if I stay somewhere (and they won't approve at all of random hookups). And ofc if anything happens, I am putting myself and the other people in danger.

Ofc I don't have to stay around theirs. But again, the dating apps use location, and I cannot do that, obviously, in the shelter or anywhere near it. Or now to come of it if my ex does the same, which he probably won't but he may, he knows where I am 😩

So my only option now is to rent a room/house share. I tried the local council but the list is riculous and I wanna move away from the same area as him. There is apparently some places that don't take a waiting list anymore, I may try that.

I believe I have had an increase in benefits. Though I'm probably going to hae to get to work again, when ofc I feel like a normal person. because renting a room or anything is riculous prices.