42[M4F] #NJ - Starved for Control, Searching for Surrender

I’m stuck in a marriage that’s left me emotionally hollow, mentally adrift, and physically unfulfilled for far too long. The spark is long gone, and I’m craving a connection that sets my skin on fire. I know my situation might not suit everyone, especially those seeking something conventional, but I’m searching for someone who’s either in a similar bind or thrives in the delicious complexity of what I’m offering.

I’m desperate for a raw, all-consuming connection. I can’t shake the need for total control, where I hold every string, and the intoxicating freedom of free use, where boundaries dissolve in relentless desire. I want someone who doesn’t just accept but craves being owned completely, surrendering to my will.

About me: 42, in NNJ, 5'11", pretty good shape. I’m ready to reveal everything in private—let’s see how far we can go.

About you: Ideally attached, but I’m not rigid. What I need is someone who is seeking to relinquish all control, to be utterly claimed, and to lose themselves in a dynamic built on mutual respect and trust.