Can i get back my offering or give the right one instead idk?

So i gave jasper 4 offerings (photo, painting, blank photo paper and something i dont remember) and he invited me to roof, as you can imagine thing got so worse like really worse and i realized i gave him something shitty and i now realize when he got 4 of them he immidately leaves like bro wtf??? i thought if i give everything on my hands he will use what he can but his dumbass uses the things i gave him right away without even thinking??? dumb game design really