Need first date advice
So, a long-distance friend (we're in the same country but different cities) recently proposed to me, and he's traveling all the way to my city for our first in-person date. He’ll be staying at a friend’s place, so we won’t be alone in any private setting like a room, which I’m personally more comfortable with for now.
We’ve planned to meet and spend the day together, and I’ve made it clear that I won’t be traveling with him to or from the restaurant and that I’m not okay with going to any room/hotel situation. He’s totally okay with that.
That said, since we’ll likely hang out for several hours until the evening, I’m looking for ideas on:
How we can spend the whole day together without it getting boring.
Public spots (safe and not too awkward) where we could have a bit of privacy for light intimacy like kissing/making out — obviously, the restaurant won’t cut it for that.
Would love suggestions from people who’ve navigated similar situations or just have good ideas for public date spots that balance fun and comfort
Posted Jun 15, 2025, 3:09 AM UTC