unemotional Partner

IS it normal for a husband to not know why he marined his wife? My husband (43) mamed me a year ago. I've asked him before what he loves about me. He said he isnt good at STUFF like that. I Still don't know. when he is mad at me he will ignore me for days. And he has told me fuck you a few times. I just feel like he hates me and H JUST Started out of nowhere