Bf Denied God 3 Times

For the past few days my boyfriend has been bringing up topics like the future & my faith.

We met January 23’. I (Fem) was just about to turn 22 when I met him (M25) on a dating platform. We met up had great conversations, worked out, talked about our cultures, our family values, dating with intentions to marry, past partners you name it. We were infatuated, I was asked out a week later with gold jewelry to go with it and I said yes… - hear me out, I found God during this relationship k? Anywho - that same night I met his brother and wife, mother, and a cousins. I was mind blown. But hey, easy come easy go.

We broke up over unfaithfulness and it was only after reconciliation, abstinence, communication and prayer.. and another dramatic break up.. that we finally found peace.

We moved together after a while, and here we have both been able to truly work on every aspect of us as individuals and as a couple. The thing is that, while working on my own personal growth I found God, I felt Jesus. And this man whom I’ve loved and cared for, I was told is not for me right now. He is slowly making my walk impossible. Everything worked out until God opened my eyes to what being unequally yoked feels like.

How can we agree on a destination??? We’re not even on the same path. He speaks of children now that his 30’s are a couple of years away, I think of them too, and of marriage and of a stable household built on a rock solid foundation like Christ. I fear he will lead me astray, I now live in constant flight mode.

Today he denied “my God” multiple times as he called Him. He talked about the things we disagree on such as abortion (even tho he a man -.-“) and he ended up calling me close minded, privileged, and acted surprised at “my view”. The whole time I was quoting scripture to explain why I don’t agree with some things and explain how we DONT know right from wrong without God. That it’s thanks to his Word that we know everything and that’s why I agree with what God of the Bible agrees with. His law is perfect, ima just follow it.

He now acts as if he didn’t watch me morph in front of him these past few years, I am not the same and every. Single. Time. I bring God up.. he rejects it.

Today was the conversation that I think will decide it all. He said he doesn’t need God in different ways and I just made up my mind that I will heck to the no have any children with a man like that. Operating on pride and not humility like Jesus. He will lead me astray and no more growth will come from this.

This is about to be the season in which I no longer date but marry Jesus. It’s over.

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