"Father's Day"

Rereleasing to traumatize everyone again.

I just found out my Dad, is not my Bio-Dad, and I'm freaking out.

Part 1

I (David, 19M) really need to vent this into the void. I am currently a student at Penn State University. I have always been interested in genetics, ever since I did my first Punnett Square in 8th grade. A few months ago, I finally splurged and got myself a 23 and Me kit and an Ancestry Kit. When I got the results back, it gave me a match of some dude named John who lives in New Jersey, our relationship match is that of Father/Son. I looked him up, and best I can see is he tried to be an MMA fighter for like 15 years, and has Dark hair and Blue eyes just like me and my siblings (Matthew Jr 29M (who I'll call MJ), Jen 27 F, and Lisa 22F). I know there's no way he is MJ's bio Dad, this guy was like 13 when my older brother was conceived. For reference, my mom is Blonde with Blue eyes, and my dad has dark hair and brown eyes.

At this point, I think I need to give some background, and explain why this is so shocking. My parents are the picture perfect couple. My Dad (Matt, 55M) and my Mom (Courtney, 52F) have been married for 31 years, they met years ago one January, and got married in October of the same year, have been together ever since.

Mom was a SAHM, and did absolutely wonderful raising us. She made all our meals, kept the house top notch. This Woman never missed any of our extracurriculars unless they conflicted, and she made it a point to balance that out. I read a lot on here and I'm sure she has a favorite, but none of us has ever felt neglected or like someone else was the "Golden Child" like I see in a lot of posts.

My Dad, is awesome. I wish I had more time with him growing up, but he definitely made the time he had memorable. He has worked so hard, he makes hella money, puts in the hours to make sure we're taken care of. All 4 of us are high achievers, and got at least some scholarships, and we didn't go to cheap places. My two oldest siblings graduated from Pitt, and Lisa is finishing up at Penn. But my Dad has covered all of it, we're all walking (or walked) out debt free. When home, our Dad was always doing stuff with us and planning outings. He made as many of our event as he could.

On top of all this we also still have all 4 grandparents kicking, and they were a big part of growing up. I'm saying this because I want you all to know my parents always seemed super into each other. We would spend a weekend every month with a grandparent set so they could have time together, they'd go on 2 or 3 date nights a month. My Dad always used his time spending it with us or my mom or helping around the house.

My parents are super affectionate with each other. My mom kisses my Dad bye everytime he leaves the house, they hold hands in public, she makes his lunch and writes him notes. My Dad has never been controlling. My mom has friends, she has done a movie night with them every Thursday for literally decades. Both my parents have stayed fit and healthy all these years. I just cannot wrap my head around it, there's no red flag I've ever noticed, or that my siblings have said to me, and Lisa and I are really close, she would notice and say something.

How could my Mom do this, how could she cheat and get pregnant with some young "macho" dude. I keep telling myself there has to be some sort of explanation. Maybe fertility problems, maybe I'm a donor baby? Maybe we all are? I've been keeping this to myself for a couple weeks, but I need to bring my siblings in. I need to tell them first before I go to my parents, maybe they know something or maybe they are in the same situation. I'm going to set up a Zoom with them all this weekend and try to find out what is going on.

Part 2

I (David, 19M) am here with an update. It's not a good one.

I did Zoom meet with all my siblings (MJ 29M, Jen 27F, Lisa 22F) and told them what I found out. At first none of them believed me, but I started sending them my DNA kit results, my receipts, I needed them to understand I was not pranking them (which I don't do pranks so it wasn't that hard to convince them).

We got to talking a lot and Jen said that maybe Lisa and I were donor babies. She said she knows from talking to Mom (Courtney, 52F) that they wanted 4 or 5 kids and the plan was for them to be as close to two years apart as possible, but there's 5 years between Jen and Lisa. Could they have turned to donors?

Lisa took some offense to this, and asked why she thought just us two were donor babies. It didn't get out of hand as MJ calmed everyone's nerves. We made the decision to go secretly get DNA tests done. Once the results came back, turns out, we are all half siblings to each other. The results imply none of us has the same father. So either Dad (Matt, 55M) fathered just one of us or none of us. Yet, we all have similar features. Which kind of implies sperm donors with similar traits. This is just a huge mind fuck for us all though. Why hide this, I mean it really doesn't change anything, Dad is Dad.

Jen then got this idea to find out. She has been married for two years now to Mitch. They are not trying to have kids currently. Her plan though, was to go talk to Dad about her "problems" conceiving, and see if he dropped any info.

She called him this past week and opened up. They ended up talking about usual things like IVF, and Jen asked if he knew anyone who had to do anything like this. He just said no, all 4 of us were lucky enough to be conceived naturally, but that he was more than willing to look into and find the best Doctors in the whole Northeast. She did her best to not tear up or breakdown while trying to naturally ease off the phone.

We have all taken this pretty hard, we are all supposed to be home this Sunday for Father's Day, and while we know it's supposed to be about Dad, we're going to bring this up and confront our mother. I just can't believe it, how does someone compartmentalize to this degree. So many affairs, so many lies.

If anything positive has come, it is us siblings have really bonded and are checking in on each other. They're all checking on me extra since I'm back home from college and living with Mom and Dad. We all agree no matter what, he is our Dad, and we are siblings. That won't change. Ugh, I am dreading Sunday so much.

Part 3

There is not enough therapy in the world for the trauma I just endured.

My (David 19M) siblings (MJ 29M, Jen 27F, Lisa 22F) arrived at our house about midday. My parents both thought something was up because MJ didn't bring Maggie (his wife) and Jen didn't bring Mitch (her husband) with them.

We had a plan though, we wanted to talk to Dad (Matt 55M) first. When he went out to fire up the grill MJ and I went out to show him what we found. Jen and Lisa did their best to play nice with Mom (Courtney 52F) in the kitchen.

We showed Dad the DNA results. At first he tried to play dumb, said this doesn't mean anything, could be a mistake. We both thought he was in denial, but we pressed, told him about Jen's faux fertility problems, and that we know it's not a donor thing. Mom cheated, maybe still is. He finally just nodded and said, "Let's go inside and talk to your mother." I turned off the propane and we went back in.

Mom seemed concerned, we all looked disturbed/angry but Dad just said, "They know." Mom looked a little confused, and Dad finished up with, "About their paternity." The confusion spread to the 4 of us. Dad said, "Let's all meet in Family room."

We all went in and sat down, Mom and Dad sat together on the couch and held hands.

MJ began, "We know we have different fathers, we demand the truth, right now, I for..."

Mom cut him off, "I want to say we are all adults here, and I agree, you're all old enough to know the truth, so I promise we will not lie to you. But some of this may make you a bit uncomfortable, so please just listen and don't judge. If you have a question I will answer it."

"Im gonna start from the beginning. You all know your father and I met when I was 20 years old and a Sophomore at Pitt. He had graduated already and gotten a great entry spot at his company. We fell in love fast, and you know we got married 10 months later, (she then giggled) and you know we're still hearing about our tiny backyard wedding from your grandparents."

"Anyway, what you don't know is your Father and I had a lot intimacy issues when we first got married. I had only been with 1 other guy before and he had only had 1 ONS before me. We had waited until we were married at his behest, and now that we were married he was having a lot of performance issues."

(At this point my siblings and I all had a collective feel of WHAT THE FUCK have we just gotten ourselves into.)

Mom continued, "Well this was really hard on my self esteem, I was crying often and your Dad, hated seeing me so, so he finally opened up to me. Your Dad is a proud Cuckold."

(WTF)

"Now, our number 1 vow to each other was to always be what the other needed." Dad then chimed in like this wasn't crazy and they were just giving proper advice, "Your vows, take them seriously, and you'll have happy lives".

Mom got going again, "At first I felt really guilty about the idea of sleeping with other men, but I knew your father really wanted it and I'd do anything for my little Cucky Bear (The horrors of that pet name will be imprinted in my head forever), so about 3 weeks after his confession, I decided to ask this hot Italian international student from class if I could come back to his dorm with him. Dad then yells all excited, "Cosimo!" Mom: "Yep, Cosimo, anyway your father was worried because I was 2 hours late getting home, that man could fuck forever."

MJ, "Mom, please, is this important." Mom snapped, "Do you want to know about your parentage or not."

Lisa started mumbling, "I don't, I don't think, I, I, I don't want.". Mom: "You don't have to stay if you're uncomfortable sweety."

Yet, no one left and Mom continued on

"So anyway when I told him why I was late he was so excited, couldn't get enough, so I kept it going. One day your Dad had the day off, by this point I had Cosimo and another guy from class I was seeing regularly, always after class. Well, I was always making them use condoms, but on this day because your Dad was off, and I wanted us to have time together after my classes, I decided to go meet Cosimo before class. I went to his dorm hoping he was there, remember this pre-cell phone, and he was, but he didn't have any rubbers on him, but I just thought whatever and we went....raw, bareback, whatever you kids call it. (I was shuddering and hoping this story was almost over by this point). So I got dressed but could still feel it in there, girls you know what I mean, I decided to skip class and go back to your Dad, and he was just so excited and happy, he licked every drop of that cum out of my pussy"

Jen jumped in, "MOM, please, don't say cum, don't say pussy, the details, we don't need all these details, we just want to know who are bio fathers are, this Cosimo, is that MJ's bio father?"

"Oh no, I'm just letting you know how this all progressed to that, I mean over 30 years....it's just kept escalating, I mean at first your Dad and I would be intimate but he wanted more, so geez, what has been 25 years since l let you have sex with me, 15 since I made you cum, oh sorry, ejaculate" Dad, "Yeah it's been awhile" Mom, "Hell, at this point we are where I only let him get himself off twice a year."

Jen "Mom! Stop, Can we just get to our fathers"

"Okay, okay, so over the next year I met up with a lot of guys and some girls, but always in like a threesome/group thing with guys involved, I'm not really into women solo." Jen, "Unnecessary details, Mom." "Yeah, yeah" Dad, "Just let your mother tell the story." Mom, "Maybe you should tell this next part."

Dad starts up, "So about a year into marriage we decided to have kids, now I have what is a pretty intense breeding fetish."

I regretfully said out loud, "Breeding fetish?"

Dad, "Yeah, when you get satisfaction from other men impregnating your wife."

MJ, "Okay, Okay, so can we just skip this, will you just tell us who are Fathers are already.

Mom, "Oh, we don't know, you were all conceived during Gangbangs or by guys running a train on me."

Jen, "You have no fucking idea, didn't you at least get names."

Mom, "Well no, you and you're older brother, I mean, that was back in the 90s, the internet was barely a thing. I was young then so both times, I just went to Frat house during a big weekend and made myself free use. If a white guy had dark hair and blue eyes, because, you know we didn't want everyone knowing about our lifestyle, Id insist they finished in me, they'd usually go for it, the tough part was other guys, I had to be firm that all finishing was in my mouth, which they never objected to. I do remember that with each of you it was only 3 or 4 guys who met the breeding criteria, except you David."

(WTF)

"Now by time Lisa was conceived we had more of a network thanks to online, so we actually just set up a gangbang with 3 bulls." Dad, "That was an intense night, one of my favorites." Mom, "Remember how they had me peg you while they finished in me from behind." Dad, "I thought I'd never be able to sit again."

MJ then snapped, "For fuck sake stop, we can't handle your trip down memory lane, please fucking stop with the details.". Dad, "Do not talk to your mother like that." Mom, "It's okay, he's just a little upset."

I then did something, I once again regret, "What about me, I found this guy online?" I handed her the Kit results.

Mom, "Oh yeah, I kinda remember him, he was young then, I definitely remember the night, my famous 5 Guy Creampie night?" (Again, another term, permanently branded into my mind, to haunt me for all my days.)

This is when Lisa spoke," Oh my God, is that why you both always do that inside joke when we drive by that stupid restaurant? You know, where Dad says "5 Guys" all weird and Mom goes, "I was so stuffed" and then you both laugh." Dad, "Well it's one of our favorite memories"

Then MJ said, "So you're whole marriage works because Moms a whore and Dad's a cuck. WTF."

Mom snapped a little here, " Don't you dare slut shame me or belittle your father, we are adults, and so are you, don't act all high and mighty, you all have had sex, you all did when you were high school, so don't play innocent. For fuck sake MJ you and Maggie's relationship started with a drunken ONS, Jen you think I don't know that you had a wild side in college, David you're girlfriend just spent a week with us not too long ago, staying in your room each night, I know you weren't down there painting each other's toe nails, and Lisa, you need to learn to be more tech savvy, every time you come home you and Paul's sex tapes upload to the family iCloud, so don't act like your all innocent, also Lisa, you ain't gonna find another like his, if I were you I'd propose to him." Dad, "Really, that big?" Mom, "Like Tom's" Dad, "Oh! (nodding in a stunned yet approving way)"

Lisa then in a tone of pure defeat, "Please, stop talking about my boyfriends dick. In fact, I can't handle this, I am going to go back to Philly."

Mom popped up, "No, you're not, you guys come in here and spring this on us, demanding the truth, well now you have it, and so what if I've slept with 200 guys and a bunch of women, your father approves, and that's all that matters." Dad, "At least"

Mom, "Yeah, around that, anyway, today is about your father, we are going to celebrate. You all got what you asked for, do want you need to come to terms with it, but we will always be a loving family. Now, Boys go with Dad and get the grill going, Girls we got sides to make."

The next 3 awkward hours were some of the longest of my life, we ate, it was just shock and silence except when Mom and Dad asked us about our recent happenings, then it was short answers. My siblings all said their goodbyes, Lisa was supposed to stay but instead went to a friends apartment. I decided an impromptu road trip to Lancaster to see my girlfriend was in order. The drive will do me good, and the hope that someone invents brain bleach, because no amount of therapy, meds, booze or elective lobotomy, is ever going to cure the trauma of this afternoon.

Anyway, Happy Father's Day everybody.