Rant of finding legit doms

(23m) It's so draining trying to find a dom that doesn't treat you like shit (when I specifically asked im not into it) or just overall being scammed. I've lost almost $150 last week just trying to find a dom that met my needs but didn't realize it would be this difficult. I blame TikTok and twitter for think its just a quick-cash grab to the point where I'm not even a real person to them. Idk it sucks but I dont know where to look besides reddit since I've heard other places like twitter is worse.