AM through matrimony sites

28 F, I want to know from other fellow women in similar age bracket, what is the right process in AM through matrimony sites when you are handling the matrimony sites by yourself, of course i inform my parents and all that and ensure they are involved but I think the profile should be ideally handled by us since we are mature enough but at the same time how to ensure that it leads to something concrete and the guys are serious. What is the process/steps you follow generally and has anyone been successful to find genuine match through these platforms?