Help me. 24m and 24f 7 years

Im looking for help. I dont know what to do. My wife and I had a kid in October. Now its like our kid is the only thing she thinks about, no more text. No more messages while im at work. I dont feel appreciated or wanted anymore. now shes a stay at home mom becuase I wanted her to stay with the kid. All she has to do is take care of our baby and do simple things around the house. I now feel drained. All I am is a source of income. Intamacy has dropped to maybe a few times a month. Instead of few times a week like before. I rarely feel wanted emotionally and physically. I just want to know. How can I attempt to fix this? I love her but dont feel like I'm loved the same way. Shes is my number 1 priority but im her 2nd priority. I've always believed it was spouse first kid second. You can make another kid but your spouse is only one.