Anyone else view love as a strategy game?

Like, it’s weird, and I understand that it’s probably a fucked up way of thinking about it, but it really feels like once you find the girl you have a crush on/like it’s just tactic after tactic and strategies and planning to get her to like you too. Ngl, it’s gotten kinda boring at this point. You just study the way they act, or the way they type for a little bit and it gets hella easy to just plan what I’m gonna say/ do to make them like me. It’s not like I don’t understand love as an emotion cuz I’ve felt it.

This post sounds egotistical asf, I swear I’m not trynna be like that. I just wanna see if anyone else understands my fucked up way of thinking and if anyone else thinks that way.”