1 Key sign I was genderfluid

For my pride month post, I'll share one thing that I should have clued me in that I was genderfluid, I used to say 'I would be the boy in a lesbian relationship' and had no problem with that statement despite the fact that lesbians found it insulting. I was still figuring out my sexuality and gender identity at the time, so I thought I was a cis lesbian that just occasionally wanted to be a boy.

Turns out I'm a genderfluid gaybian so yeah that checks out. Also for those of you who don't know, Gaybian is where you are a multi-gendered person (I.e.genderfluid, intersex, bigender, demiboy, demigirl, etc.) that identifies as gay and lesbian and where your level or type of attraction to boys and girls (and/or other gender identities) is different.