How to deal with this alone and after many years. As a man.

Many years ago (2015ish) my ex purposefully miscarried due to some eating disorder stuff and called it a miscarriage. Not many people know still and her and I are definitely not on speaking terms. So I’ve been dealing with this the best I can. Ive read a lot of other men’s experiences with this and read a few things about dealing with this situation as a man and noticed the biggest theme is feeling alone and it feels no one cares about how you feel or take your pain seriously. Those are very real. So I don’t know if there’s anyone out there in this thread that’s been dealing with the aftermath long after it happened. I still deal with those feelings among many many others.

Idk I just wanna also tell the other dudes that have been where I am, I definitely care and I sure hope you’ve healed at least a little from this. Reach out if you want.

Thank you