AITAH for asking my ex-roommate to pay rent after he moved out of our shared room

I’ve been sharing a rented room with my roommate (Adam) for the past 10 months. We had a clear agreement to split the rent 50/50. The lease is under my name, but we both committed to a 1-year contract with the owner, and everything was fine—until recently.

About a week before this all happened, Adam stopped coming home. No warning, no explanation. I assumed maybe he was staying somewhere else for a bit and didn’t ask.

Then one day, while I was at work, he came back to the room, packed up all his stuff, left the key, and left. No goodbye, no text, no discussion. I came home and saw his side of the room completely empty. That was the first time I realized he had moved out.

I tried texting him to ask what happened, but he never replied. It’s been days/weeks and I’ve heard nothing. We still have 2 months left on the lease, and now I’m stuck paying the full rent alone.

I reached out to ask him to still pay his share, at least until the contract ends, or at least communicate with me—but he’s completely ghosted me.

Some people would say I should just move on, but I honestly feel like I’ve been left with all the responsibility after he bailed.

So… AITAH for asking him to pay rent after leaving without notice and ignoring my messages?

Posted Jun 23, 2025, 4:14 AM UTC

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