Xc90 vs grand highlander

I am looking to buy lightly used SUV for the family and found a 2022 XC90 T6 with 17k miles and tip top trim for 45k. We were strongly considering a Grand Highlander but this Volvo was a dream to drive, and the safety ratings of the car are a huge selling point. It does have air suspension though and I have read about them being unreliable. Can someone give input if this would be a moneypit or a sound purchase over a Toyota?