Long distance crush

Venting

I didn’t want to post this on a relationship advice reddit because it may not be received well. Everyone is so judgemental haha.

However, I (28f) have started to form a major crush on a guy (29m) I met on a dating app yrs ago. We matched 5 yrs ago but because of timing we never met up. We followed each other on Instagram, Snapchat, and we message here and there over the years. Felt like he became a friend who flirts with me sometimes.

Recently, we have been talking a lot more and I find myself enjoying talking to him a lot. I’m surprised because I thought the attraction was mostly physical, but we truly do have a lot in common. I’m feeling excited? I have other men in my life that are interested or ask me out on dates, but I feel myself drawn to only him. he even expressed that he likes me, and wants to talk on the phone more. I feel like if I talk to him on the phone and hear his voice, I’m going to start to fall in love lol.

Anyways I’m just venting I guess. Maybe I should say “f” it and see where it goes.

Posted Jun 23, 2025, 4:17 AM UTC

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