22 [F4M] #Dallas, Austin, Houston travel - Recent grad looking for older attached guy

Hello 🙃 This post is a long time coming for me. Converted throwaway account, so about me:

• 22 f, single, TX, recent grad starting a career
• I'm a people person, extroverted, and a pleaser, mature, and like being descriptive
• I enjoy nights out or in, travel, pretending to play tennis (let's be honest, it's mostly neighborhood pickleball), swimming, and cooking
• 5'3" 115 lbs, brunette, fit, conventionally attractive

On the outside, I'm career ready, professional, and starting a new chapter. Underneath that, I'm adventurous, very high libido, high energy, love sex, and am very attracted to older guys - something I've realized over the past year or so, though I have only been with guys my age, and something friends and fam would not know. Being in this new place, I can't help noticing the older dads out in public - the grocery store, gym, airport - the glances, hellos, and small talk.

Separating public and private matters a lot to me. But at some point, the realization of being in a new place, away from others, and the possibility that presents, hit me. I cannot stop thinking about this if the right situation came along.

So, here goes. I am looking for a fun, discreet, nasty, no strings connection with an older guy wanting a horny younger playmate. Please be:

• Local to TX with regular availability
• 35-60ish
• Attached but secure and happy, interested in what I described without affecting situations negatively. For me this is about having overlapping wants
• Not hyper dom or experienced. I prefer someone around the same level
• As I mentioned, I am very much a pleaser and would insist (really) that anything lean at least slightly towards him. Mutual pleasure is fine, but I am not looking for someone who is an over-the-top pleaser himself.
• Willing to exchange pics and verify when we are both comfortable and willing to take time to think through this intentionally

I am open to fun, careful activities, time spent, etc. if it goes that way, but am really looking for something otherwise private, ongoing, and sex intensive. My kinks include toys, lingerie, creative themes, oral, anal and butt play, cum, and watersports (receiving).

For me, this is about pursuing a discreet, sex focused side life. But more than that, it's about taking it to an ongoing, very nasty level ... and seeing an older attached guy, who has thought about this intentionally, build a private, constant, extremely filthy space for himself. I would LOVE to step into the situation of an older guy with those kinds of needs, someone who has also thought about this as much as I have, and is ready to have the kind of side life I described. I am understandably cautious in thinking about this. At the same time, I am very curious about the next step with the right, careful older guy who wants to make it real. Thanks for reading.