Why do we attract bad people?

Has anyone ever felt like we attract attention from only bad people? Like even if I’m just minding my own business out in public, some random person will go up to me and make a rude comment to me, like about my teeth, clothes etc. Another example is just narcissistic people, like every autistic person I know (including me) has survived some sort of child abuse or narcissistic family member who mistreats them. Does anybody have some sort of explanation for this?