Does anybody know of a type of spell jars to help with grief & healing from an abusive relationship, combined with helping gain self love in the healing journey??

Does anybody have any spell jar "recipes" (I guess you'd call it ..) ((THAT WERE SUCCESSFUL)) for any spell jars that helps the healing process of grief & mental/emotional healing from an abusive relationship that also helps one gain self love during the healing journey ??

✨✨The girl involved is 20 years old / (September Virgo sun) and is a diagnosed borderline personality disorder patient(that's also pregnant with his kid) as well as anxious attachment styles... and the guy that's abusive in every way is a 33,Almost 34 year old /(October Libra sun) with suspected Covert Narcissism - (subtype of Narcissistic Personality disorder) with a dismissive avoidant attachment styles who is also a m3tH & F3nT addict .. ✨✨