I feel like this is going to far

I’m not sure if this is abuse or can be justified. Long story short my bf has a great job and makes good money but with that being said I know that doesn’t mean much when everything is so damn expensive. I have a part time job so I can contribute at least something but also handle everything else (taking care of our son, cooking, cleaning, etc. I understand being the provider is extremely difficult and I do expect some days where he’s gonna be stressed and in a bad mood, but to a certain extent. I have become the scape goat for literally everything. Every bit of anger stemming from things I’m not even involved in is taken out on me. The worst part is he’s doing this in front of our kid. Yelling, cussing me out, silent treatment, straight up disrespect. I have tried to talk to him about it but get told to get over it or I can leave because I don’t make as much money as him. I don’t know what to do and I don’t know how far I’m supposed to let this go. Idk if I actually should just deal with it or just leave 🥲