She was furious when I told her.. weeks later something changed.. advice

We’ve been a married, traditional couple for over a decade — very vanilla, very close. A few weeks ago, I did something that took a lot of courage: I gently shared my hotwife fantasy with my wife.

I wasn’t asking her to do anything. I just opened up about what excites me. Her reaction? She was furious. Not just surprised — hurt, angry, and totally closed off. For two weeks, the air between us was cold. I honestly thought I had ruined the trust we had.

Then… something shifted.

She never brought it up again, but she slowly reconnected with me — and not just emotionally. Our sex life became more intense, playful, and, honestly, the best it’s been in years. She’s more confident, more teasing, and the way she looks at me sometimes — it’s like she knows I’m still thinking about what I told her.

Now I’m unsure what to do. I don’t want to push or ruin the spark we’ve rediscovered. But I also don’t want to pretend it never happened if she’s silently exploring the idea herself.

So I’m asking the community — both husbands and hotwives:

Have you been through something like this?

If you were initially angry, what helped shift your perspective?

Did things evolve quietly, or did it need another conversation?

And if it went badly, I’d appreciate hearing that too — I want to learn.

I love her deeply and want to walk this path with care. Thanks in advance for any insight or stories — happy to hear in comments or respectful DMs.