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AITA cause me and my boyfriend fought over a show?

So for context me (F19) live with my boyfriend (M21). We both worked today. I worked 10-5 and he worked 3pm-11pm. I get home from work and I clean the dishes, make dinner, clean the cat little box, go to the store, and put up food. Then he gets home and I already put the trash out for him to take to the dumpster. I give him some dinner from tonight and he sits down with me. On top of working I also do school and was about to do some schoolwork at 11:30pm. He sits down and asks if we can watch something. I say sure but I have school work. He goes "okay, I'll put on my show then." (For context he has been rewatching drake and josh. I don't like that on when I do school work because I find it annoying and distracting, but I'm fine with leaving the room so he can watch it. We have talked about why I don't like it before.) he says he wants to put on drake and josh knowing how I feel about it, and I say "why not survivor?" His response is "well if you're about to do school work then I don't want to turn it on for like 5 minutes." I explained I don't want to watch drake and josh and that I can go out. He gets upset and starts another argument on why he can't watch his show around me. (I don't care when it's on unless I'm doing school work). I try to explain and then he says to me "you're a clown, that has to be a joke it's so laughable." I feel like this was deeply disrespectful and it hurt my feelings. We have had arguments over what he's said to me. Now he's claiming I took what he said the wrong way, but what other way could I have taken it? I left the room then and went to be alone. AITA?

Posted Jun 23, 2025, 4:31 AM UTC

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