How do I get 160k full package in the San Fran/San Jose area?

I’ve calculated and to just get by here, I need at least 160k/yr to cover my families expenses, how do I get that with 4-5 years of experience? I’ve got 3+ years in big 4 and up to the senior level, and 1 year in industry as a senior, seems like I need to be a manager to get that 160k in the Bay Area right? How do I get there…