Feeling unsupported

Need Advice

Hi all, I’m due within the next few weeks , I was on Zoloft majority of my pregnancy and I didn’t realize how much it suppressed my feelings until now that I weaned off . It’s been about 3 weeks since I’ve been off of it and I feel like I’m starting to come to a realization of many things. I don’t feel like my husband cares much about my baby, I was extremely sick with severe nausea/ vomiting early on in pregnancy. I would complain a lot about how I felt and sometimes I would come home and just lay down . I never missed work despite how rough it was. One day my husband made a comment about me maybe just getting an abortion and I remember it hurting my feelings . I asked him why he would say something like that knowing we both wanted a baby and his response was that he “hated seeing me sick” , all I ever wanted was to feel more support . Now that I’m closer to my due date , I feel like he shows no interest. I’ve been the one on top of all baby things , making list of what we need , etc . He hardly touches me baby and never talks to baby at all. I brought this up to him one and told him how I felt he didn’t show much emotion or affection. Now he thinks that him showing that he wants to have sex with me is showing “affection” which isn’t what I mean. I’m getting to the point where I feel like raising my baby on my own is probably the best option.

Posted Jun 30, 2025, 3:03 AM UTC

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