25 [TM4A] #NYC/Online — ISO dominant soulmate.
Hi everyone! I’m a 25 year old trans man, born and raised in New York, and as it says, I’m looking for my dominant soulmate. I’m hoping to find someone who shares my interests in both kink and non-kink hobbies and desires. For transparency sake, I already had top surgery and am not interested in bottom surgery (pussy too fire lmfao), and I plan on working out more consistency to have my desired masculine body type.
About me: First and foremost, I’m a creative—I’ve always loved writing fiction and romance, drawing digital art, and painting with acrylic/gouache. I’m also an academic involved in human studies, though I’m currently on break from pursuing post-grad studies due to the current political and economic situation :’) but I do have ambitions to complete a PhD one day!
Outside of that, I also enjoy hiking, journaling, cooking and eating food I’ve never had before, reading, traveling to new countries, and watching movies. My favorite movie genre will always be horror, but I do like a variety just like my music such as historical dramas, romance, superhero/action, animation, international films, and more.
Long term, I do not see myself having children (though I think they’re very cute when they’re not mine lol). Due to witnessing how cocaine, poppers, and fentanyl have affected people I deeply cared for in the past, I ask that people who use substances other than alcohol or weed do not message me.
What I’m looking for: Someone with similar interests who is educated on human rights issues for sure. An introverted-leaning ambivert, a dominant-leaning switch or dominant. Definitely a bonus if you’re someone who doesn’t care about gender too—I want someone who sees me as me if that makes sense.
In terms of kink: while this doesn’t have to be a 24/7 dynamic, I would like to try that. But again, it’s not necessary. At the end of the day, I want to find someone who I can devote myself to, who I can worship, love, respect, and protect. I adore all love languages, though physical affection and quality time are my faves which is why I like 24/7 free use and groping. I’ve never tried TPE but would be very interested. Some other examples that I enjoy are: being spit in my mouth; mating press/being squished; choking; light slapping; spanking; leash & collar.
Anyway, I hope this catches someone’s eye! Age preference, please be younger than 55 ;3 otherwise, feel free to message me!
Posted Jun 30, 2025, 3:05 AM UTC · locked