35M - Maryland, DC, NoVa Area - Looking for a Like-Minded Friend...Maybe You’re in a Similar Situation?

So, I have posted this before and very quickly learned a few things.

1. People are flaky/unreliable.
2. People are only interested in one thing.
3. People don't actually read the post in its entirety.

So here we go again...

I’m married and not attracted to guys in the sense of romance, but I did discover (thanks to a new friend) recently that I do like a handsome face. I’ll be real, I'm curious and attracted to the male body part. I find it fascinating, and there’s something about it that catches my attention, especially the way it varies in shape and size. I’m not here for labels or drama, just looking to explore some boundaries in a low-key, relaxed way as friends. Think: Jo Buddy.

What I’m after is someone who’s down-to-earth and has a good vibe. No pressure, no expectations. Just two people who can enjoy casually hanging out with the potential to explore things on the "side" (see what I did there?). Think: grabbing some food and drinks, catching a movie, exploring a new area, trying a new restaurant, traveling, just shooting the breeze and having good conversations, etc. without the awkwardness.

I'm black, professional, clean cut, laid back, well-groomed and take hygiene and cleanliness very seriously. If you're respectful, chill, and can get where I’m coming from, we’ll probably click. If you’ve got three teeth and a lingering scent of bad decisions, we’re probably not a match.

Ideally, you're a good person with your life together, someone who gives off good energy and is easy to be around. You're in your late 20s to 40s (early 50s is cool too), in the Maryland,DC,NoVa area, or at least come here regularly.

Maybe I'm asking for too much, but this is DEFINITELY like finding a needle in a haystack. You never know, trying again and seeing what happens.

If you've made it this far and it resonates, feel free to reach out.

Just adding a pic to grab your attention, since we all know that's the first thing people notice.

https://preview.redd.it/mm8as0o4dz9f1.jpg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99187c4de3a0104d2a398d3df0e6b81740474c7b