advice: if you get under new people to get over them

from someone who has always moved on quickly, even when unhealed, this is the worst thing you can possibly do.

i’m almost three months post breakup and i’ve had my fair share of situationships, dates, and hook ups. but even when it seems to work for a few days, the texts will dry up, the sparks will fade, and the realization always catches up.

don’t talk to other people to get the attention you want or the intimacy you need replaced. it will always come back to get you. work on yourself and don’t focus on what your ex is doing or if they’ve moved on. it’s not a competition to see who moves on first or who’s happier post breakup. the real test is who’s in a healthier mindset with themselves, and don’t let them get the best of you.