AITA? I a 19F have been dating my 20M boyfriend for 4 years. I recently asked him to stop buying from onlyfans and watching porn.

A few months ago I found out my boyfriend had been watching porn and buying from Onlyfans. I talked with him about it to see why he enjoyed watching it since I am don’t enjoy it. In his words he said “Anytime I look at images of girls or watch it, I’m thinking of it being you.” After listening to him talk about it I realized that I was still extremely uncomfortable with it and asked him to stop. He started to defend himself and say that he’s had an addiction which I completely understand because i’ve meet others with the same addiction and it’s hard to quit. However, he started to say he does it when he’s horny and doesn’t want to ask me for things to satisfy it. Mind you I don’t mind sending anything to him.

After a few months had passed I never heard anything from him about but today I decided to ask about it to see how he was doing with it. He said “I’ve only done it a few times.” I didn’t get angry or anything just asked him why and listened to him as he explained. After listening I had asked why he didn’t mention it to me since we agreed on talking to each other if he thinks about it or does it. He said he didn’t think anything of it.

Once again I’m extremely uncomfortable with him watching these things because I don’t enjoy him looking at other women in that state even if he’s thinking of me.

AITA for asking him to quit watching it?