30[M4F]#Online - Dom, back after a break, looking for a sub

NSFWM4F

So let's get done with the basics first , I'm 30 , 5'11.. I'm no body builder but I'm fit and fairly athletic , I have a full time corporate job in finance. It's not my long term plan but until then it pays the bills

When I'm not working , I'm either reading (books are my biggest expense head every year) , watching something on Netflix (most likely a documentary about space, true crime or history) . I've recently started learning two new languages so even that takes up a bit of time from my schedule

My sense of humour is dry and sarcastic. I'm an extroverted introvert . I do things with commitment and passion or i don't do them at all , in that way I'm a bit extreme, otherwise I'm a pretty chill guy when it comes to most things except for BDSM

So i take my role as a DOM very seriously and want a sub who does the same. This can't work if both parties involved are not into it completely. As a DOM , i would say I'm strict , I like the structure & rules. Some of my kinks are humiliation(light), degradation, orgasm denial , praise , wardrobe control (to an extent) , mild pain, pet play, objectification & exhibitionism.

What I'm looking for in a sub is quite basic actually , just an eagerness to build a good BDSM dynamic , that takes effort and commitment which i will also give from my end. I like to spend time getting to know my sub first as a person and give the dynamic time to naturally evolve and get to where we would want it to be. So communication is a big thing for me

But to shorten it , I'm looking for a sub who wants to submit and is eager to learn and please

Hope you made it this far , if this resonated with you , shoot me a message.

Posted Jun 30, 2025, 3:09 AM UTC · locked

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