I suck at plugging stuff/components in

Anyone else struggle the same way?

I’ve built/fixed computers and others electronics for over 10+ years - everything comes naturally for me EXCEPT actually plugging ANYTHING in. Worst of all are those hidden DP/HDMI ports on monitors. It will no joke sometimes take me ~30 minutes to finally get a proper seating. Heck I find the coaxial cables for TV antennas much easier than most of the crap on PCs.

For a while I thought it was maybe because I had longer hair which got in the way as I was kneeling down etc, but even after rocking short hair that hasn’t helped.