Playing ACNH for the first time, how to help my daughter with furnishing new home plots?

Okay I think I am kinda screwed but, my daughter and her account is the primary resident. She doesn’t play as actively as myself, but now we need to furnish 3 home plots we created. It seems Tom Nook gave her recipes for most the items, but my account (secondary resident) doesn’t have most of these recipes as I think they came directly from Nook to her.

I play more and have tons of resources. It would be easier if I can help furnish these homes but I am missing a lot of the recipes.

Is there a trick to this or is my only hope to try and randomly get these from villagers or message bottles?

Alternatively I can drop a ton of resources on the ground and switch accounts but I’m trying not to play for her too much.