Borderline Mom Went No Contact

Hi! New to this group… my borderline mom recently had a splitting episode with her husband and promptly filed for divorce after blowing a situation out of proportion.

She then split with my aunt for sending her a “thinking of you” card during my mom’s sudden divorce. She claimed it wasn’t “enough support”.

I kept in touch with my stepdad of 15+ years (even though she wants me to never speak to him again) and have now been told she won’t speak to me, and she has blocked me on all social media sites.

How do you deal when they go no-contact? She has never reached this level of extreme before, but has screamed, used physical violence and carried on with a disagreement for far too long.

It’s hard to feel like I don’t have a mom and for my kids (4 and 7) to have a grandma who refuses to speak with us.