30 [M4F] Dubai/Riyadh - happy marriage accompanied by a dull bedroom

Goodmorning from my side of the world!

I'm in a very similar boat as most posts I've seen on here tbh. I love my wife, and we've been married for 4 years now. I've known her for over a decade and we're really happy. My only issue is the dull bedroom, she's no where near as sexual as I am and I always end up scrolling online..

As most posts on here say, "I'm not here to change my situation or yours", but most def do need a way to let this tension out from time to time.

It's not just about cumming n going, but id rather have atleast some sort of connection with whoever I'm talking to

30 M from Dubai btw. I'm Arab, 6'1, relatively fit but been out of the gym for a few months so not the leanest at the moment lol

Not sure what else you'd like to know but feel free to ask whatever you'd like!