Monster meaning

I just finished the series and I'm trying to figure out some things.

Ray told Devon she was a monster.

Peter told Michaela she was a monster.

Ethan told Simone she was a monster.

They all blamed the women for what had happened, that it was their fault that these men acted a certain way, that they had this pull towards them. They were all angry with the women. This ties in with the meaning of a Siren, creatures known for "luring sailors to their doom".

The women all reacted the same, shocked by these accusations from each of them. The women claimed they had nothing to do with the men's actions. That the men chose to do it. Ray took care of the girls' dad and traveled to the island just for Devon, even saying he was about to leave his wife and kid for Devon. Peter didn't see his kids for a whole decade for Michaela. Ethan was fully ready to be engaged to Simone, previously known as not a very committed person.

But then again, who is the true Siren or "monster"?? The men also had behaviors and choices that led to the downfall of each of the women's lives. This raises questions on topics of how to create healthy dynamics between men and women in relationships.

I loved the cinematography work on this series, with the blurs and focuses on the women when they triggered their inner "power" of being a Siren, even to each other, when Michaela ignited vulnerability from Devon. Music choices were great as well.

What are your guys' thoughts on this ??