Have genital preference for cis men but only trans men like me?

Advice Needed

Essentially, I have a really strong preference for penises. Identify as queer with preference for men. However.... I basically only exclusively attract other trans people and none of the cis men I get feelings for usually end up reciprocating. Like never in my life has a cis man reciprocated. I'm wondering what this means. Does this just mean I'll "eventually" end up being into trans guys? I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how things ended up playing out for them.

Did you ever end up finding the one mystical cis man of legend who is magically accepting and understanding? It almost feels like the universe is telling me not to date cis men. I don't know. I feel like I can barely get a cis guy to give me the time of day but I get hit on CONSTANTLY by other trans people.

Not at all saying that this is a bad thing but it confounds me a bit. Also not making this with the intent to be transphobic, more just to make sense of my own feelings and see if anyone has input.

Posted Jun 30, 2025, 3:19 AM UTC

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