what does this even mean

when i hear girls say that they are "sexually interested" in men but "romantically interested" in women and then say that makes them bisexual it honestly kind of upsets me. i've heard SO MANY "bi" women say this and don't know if the is frusterates anyone else? i feel like that fuckery logic is nonsense and does not make you bisexual. sometimes it just seems like people want to be queer SO BADLY and ill never understand it. i am a masc lesbian personally, so i am les4les and would not be with someone who likes men as well--for i am a woman and I WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A WOMAN--not how you treated your shitty bf. thoughts??